I just came in all sweaty and dirty from a long day
gardening in the humid weather, thinking about my grandma,
Bertha Johnson. This is her on her 80th birthday. She lived to be 92 and was vibrant and independent until her last few months. She traveled to New Zealand - the final destination on her dream travel list - when she was 90.
My grandma was an irrepressible gardener and I
learned to love digging in the dirt from her. I was so lucky to grow up
with two grandmothers nearby, my paternal grandma living next door throughout my
teenage years (she was more of a houseplant gardener), and Grandma J, my maternal grandma, just a short walk away
on Lake Bemidji.
Grandma J. had me
working with her in the garden even as a very young child. I would help her start tomato seeds, in eggshell halves set in the egg cartons, in her little screened-in porch that
served as a greenhouse. My sisters and I cultivated the rows of carrots and other
veggies, walking backward so as to not leave footprints, and she was patient
when we accidentally weeded out the starts. I learned to soak and inoculate bean
seeds before planting. She paid me a penny per dandelion dug from her yard, as long as I
got the entire root. We planted sweet corn the Native American way, in hills of
four seeds with a fish buried beneath. Occasionally in the evenings
Grandma would take me fishing for little perch in the weedy area of the
lake in front of her house, not to eat, but just to bury in her garden and
enrich the soil.
She and my grandpa built their house on the lake
when I was in kindergarten, and for the rest of her life she worked to
transform what was essentially beach sand into rich garden loam by adding tons of
compost, sheep manure and mulching with her former neighbors'
grass clippings and leaves. She watered her gardens with warm, nutrient-rich
lake water. She worked out a deal with the resort owners up and down the
lakeshore--they would haul their guests' fish cleaning guts to her garden
daily during the summer and dig them in wherever she directed them.
Her garden was spectacular, a show-stopper, but always a work in
progress. She called her style "hodgepodge" - vegetables
mixed with abandon with bulbs, berries, fruit trees and flowers. And weeds. Always more weeding to be done. She read Organic Gardening magazine and once told me that she
didn't know what the hoopla was about organic gardening, that was the way she
always had gardened. She planted by the moon and also used companion
planting strategies. Although she really did not like earthworms, she
appreciated them in her garden. She disliked rabbits. She collected rain
water in a barrel on the corner of her house - good soft water for watering her
seedlings. I realize now she was using permaculture techniques!
Another trait I must have inherited from Grandma J
was a love of reuse, recycling and repurposing. Her garden was full of
garage sale finds - old birdhouses, wicker chairs, benches - that she
repainted and refurbished decades before Flea Market gardening was a hot garden
trend. She saved boxes of salad dressing and ketchup bottles for
"vases" that we grandkids would clean out every summer by
swishing a bit of pea gravel and vinegar water inside. She would
sometimes take my sisters and me to the Dairy Queen for an ice cream cone,
but then ask us to fish out the plastic dishes from garbage --the sundae
cups were great for starting seeds and the parfait glasses were perfect for
putting stems of flowers in for the county fair.
Or, I should say "fairs." Grandma
entered every county fair in northern Minnesota every summer and she strived to
have an entry in every category of flower, vegetable, herb, berry, jam, jelly,
pickle, and flower arrangement. Back then you would win $1 for a blue ribbon,
$.75 for red and $.50 for white. Maybe $5 for a grand champion purple!
She had a closet full of boxes full of ribbons from all the fairs over
the years. I told her it would be so cool to wallpaper her house with her
ribbons! She earned enough money from her fair winnings and from selling plant
starts (dug from her garden) at the end of her driveway each spring to pay for
her world travels each winter.
When I am gardening now, trying to figure out what
to plant where or how to tackle a problem with weeds or insects or soil,
I often find myself thinking "What would Grandma do?"
When I hear the chug-a-chug-a-p-r-r-r-r of the lawn sprinkler, I often
flash back to gardening with her. Wearing my cropped pants,
sleeveless blouse, plastic shoes and gardening gloves, I realize I am
wearing pretty much her exact summer attire. When I come up with an innovative
garden repurposing idea I think how she would appreciate it. Oh how she would have loved having a high tunnel to extend the northern Minnesota growing season and get a head start for the fair! I wish,
wish, wish she could see my farm and gardens and know how much all those summers
gardening with her influenced me and how much I love growing things, thanks to
her.
Several years ago, Rog and I were on a backpacking trip in the Grand
Canyon. Being in such a vast, quiet place without the constant
bombardment of radios, phones, computers and other such stimuli, we all
found ourselves having very vivid dreams. One night, in the wee hours of
morning, my grandma appeared and said "I am so proud of you."
That was all. It felt more like a visitation than a dream. So maybe
she does know.
3 comments:
Susan - what an incredible tribute to your Grandmother. You should send it in to "Green Prints - The Weeder's Digest". It's just the thing he likes to publish. Pat Stone is the editor/publisher pat@greenprints.com. Their website is www.greenprints.com.
That was very touching. I'm a grown man with tears in my eyes as I read that memory of your Grandma. I too had wonderful Grandparents who lived close and gardened. Your story was so heartfelt and sweet. I believe somehow she is smiling down on you as you tend your gardens. Thank you for sharing your memories and reminding me of my own cherished memories. Todd , from SW Illinois
Thanks for sharing that. So touching and well written. I agree with Marcia.
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